Still interested. Got only one lesson in as I did it when flying down to Essex to visit a friend. Not knowing anyone to teach me on the Isle of Man has been the stumbling block. I've resisted the urge to buy kit and attempt to learn from youtube videos etc - I'm sure that'll be a dangerous way to learn and I'll risk making rookie errors! If you know anyone locally on island Manxean I'd be very grateful of being pointed in the right direction. Not really keen on parawaiting as the posters above were saying. For me it's about having the most amazingly awesome mode of transport.
As regards the 16 mile trip across the Irish Sea to Scotland, I gather the key thing is going to be glide ratio as regards whether one can get high enough to be able to glide far enough to safely do the trip. I'm not sure if that's a practical possibility without significant risk.
Anyway very keen to find someone that can show me the ropes, preferably a trainer but if not just someone with the experience and skills willing to teach!